The Reason You’re Still Single

The Reason You’re Still Single

If you are single and have been for a while, people will ask you “why are you single?”  Even though you might not really know, or you might want to tell them to mind their own business, people will always think certain things.  Nobody ever thinks that you might be choosing to be single because everyone just assumes that everyone wants to be in a committed relationship.

If you are one of those people that don’t want to be committed and want to be single, here are some interesting things to figure out.

When people ask why you are single, it can cause you to overthink or to have worry and self-doubt.  The truth is that there are millions of reasons why you might be single, and this could be because you don’t put yourself out there or that you always pick the wrong people to date.  Maybe, you have never been good at going for what you want.

If someone asks you why you are single, be honest with them and think about yourself and figure out why you think you are single.  Find out if you are interested in something that you are not being honest about or find out if you have issues with relationships.

Don’t forget that all relationships are imperfect and that everyone has flaws and things that could cause them to be imperfect.  If you don’t want to be single, figure out why you are single and figure out what kind of relationship you are looking for.

Find out if you are really happy being alone or if you feel lonely.  Don’t let being alone define you for who you are.  Everyone wants to be loved but regardless of that, it might just not be your time to find love yet.

Try to be happy with what is happening in your life at the moment.  Live in the moment and take chances and risks.  Enjoy your life and have adventures.  Stay grounded and hopeful and you will someday find love the way that you want it.

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