by Perfect Love Mate | Jan 25, 2020 | Relationship Help
Dating chemistry is the feeling of being drawn to someone. It might show up in a conversation that feels easy, in physical attraction or in wanting to know more about a person. Different people notice it in different ways. Chemistry can make a date enjoyable. It does...
by Perfect Love Mate | Aug 12, 2019 | Relationship Help
Give and take in a relationship is easier to discuss when it means real responsibilities and care, rather than a percentage. A fair balance will not look identical every day. What matters is whether both people can speak honestly about their needs and rely on each...
by Perfect Love Mate | May 19, 2019 | Relationship Help
You do not have to stop looking to find love. You can date actively, stay open to meeting people without using apps, or take a break. What matters is whether the pace you choose leaves room for the rest of your life. You cannot make another person want the same...
by Perfect Love Mate | May 25, 2018 | Relationship Help
Start with the question you want an episode to help you think about. Why does the same disagreement keep coming back? How could you talk about spending without shame? What do you want after a breakup? A question will help you choose faster than a long list of shows....
by Perfect Love Mate | May 8, 2018 | Relationship Help
In my work as an attachment-based and emotionally focused therapist, I see how the ways people learned to protect themselves can show up in adult relationships. A delayed reply might feel like a bigger risk to one person, while someone else needs time to find words...
by Perfect Love Mate | May 8, 2018 | Relationship Help
You can feel close to a partner and want less sex than you used to. You can also feel desire and want more emotional connection. If one of those describes your relationship, ask which kind of closeness you’re missing before assuming you both want the same change. Some...
